9/03/2009

A Virgo/Tiger client asks why she has problems holding on to men.

PERSONAL CONSULTATIONS WITH SUZANNE WHITE

After over 25 years of practicing Astrology, Suzanne has observed thousands of peoples' charts. No matter what the person's problem, their chart reveals the solution.

Astrology Never Lies


A
Virgo/Tiger  ( Let's call her Anna.) wrote to Suzanne about her problems holding on to men.

Anna writes "
I just ended a 4 year relationship and feel IF I ever again meet a man that I can have an emotional and sexual relation with, I want to be prepared to handle the situation in a constructive way. What advice can you give me?"

After drafting Anna's chart, the first thing Suzanne noted, based on the client's birth date, time and place, is that Anna has
Sagittarius Rising. This Virgo/Tiger has a strong restlessness and yearning for something greater than anything yet experienced, and often lives in her dreams and visions for the future.

AND…

Anna may be being driven to want to be a couple by her
Capricorn Moon. (Capricorn Moon says that she needs to "settle down") But all the rest of her planets are kicking up a dust storm in Capricorn's face in order to try to maintain her freedom.

The Storm Warnings…

Anna was born in the
Metal Tiger Year and Tigers feel like they will wither and die when trapped in possessive or claustrophobic relationships. They need their space and they need a certain amount of solitary "me" time to re-stoke their raging furnaces.

Both
Sagittarius and Tiger tend to make someone restless and unwilling to settle down. This client says in her letter that she has difficulty "holding onto a man".

But…

Perhaps Anna doesn't really want to "hold on" because it would mean some degree of emotional stagnation that she cannot abide.

Freedom-loving and independent, this chart indicates that Anna cannot tolerate being caged for very long, and friends and loved ones must respect her need for freedom of movement.

There is MORE!..

Anna also has the
Sun in Virgo. She is careful and cautious in her approach to life, realistic, practical, and disinclined to gamble. She will analyze before she acts and can miss nuances, subtle shades of feeling and meaning.

And…

When under stress, Anna is apt to try to rigorously analyze and to focus on what needs to be corrected or improved, and she can easily become critical and problem-oriented,
losing sight of the big picture and of what is working.

Anna is just plain too serious sometimes. Allowing herself to play and to make mistakes would be HEALTHY for her!


Suzanne's suggestion to Anna:

Stop trying "
to be prepared to handle the situation in a constructive way"

Learn to
relax and surrender to the flow of events without having to figure everything out all the time. Let feelings and intuitions flow more freely, be more flexible and fluid, use your imagination and let your dreams emerge!

Cultivating the qualities of empathy, gentleness, and compassion will help counterbalance her deeply ingrained perfectionism and critical nature.

With
Sagittarius influencing her personality Anna needs a man who is a friend and fun to be with as much as (or more than) she needs love and passion. A sturdy, adventurous and independent Horse or a jolly (but not too clingy) Dog person would be perfect (See The New Astrology or Suzanne White's Guide to Love for more Love Matches for this Sign)

You can read Anna's full 40 page detailed Astrology Reading
here. (click on link)

Names and dates have been changed to protect the client's privacy.

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